samedi 31 janvier 2009

Grève Thursday? Faire the Fête Wednesday night!!

Grève means strike. I learned about a week ago that on Thursday, January 29th that there would be an interprofessionnelle grève. Not only would most of the teachers at school be on strike, but other professions would also be striking in demonstration against the most recent proposals for changes within the education system. I might not even be able to get to Amberieu because the trains might not be working, I was told. “So don’t bother even trying. Just don’t come”… OK.


With a little research I realized ALL the assistants would be in the same state- Thursday, for us, would be a nice day off! Woohooo! So what would you do if you had Thursday off? Well, party Wednesday night seemed like the most logical answer to me!


Recently, while walking around with my Irish friend Michelle, I stopped by the American store- at least that’s what I call it- it’s real name is Best Bagels; they make bagel sandwiches (they have REAL Philadelphia Cream Cheese!!!) and they sell some products that are particularly American, like root beer, peanut butter, Captain Crunch cereal, Pop Tarts, and Jell-O… for extremely expensive and outrageous prices. A box of Captain Crunch is 9.95 Euro. I did not buy the Captain Crunch. I did, however, pick up some Jell-O for 3 Euro 70 a box… I figured it just might be worth it…. I was right!


On Wednesday afternoon Michelle came back over and we made jello shots. These very typically American treats are easy to make but not ever found anywhere in Europe, at least as far as I can tell. Michelle had never heard of them, neither had Andrea, my German friend. I invited the two over along with some marvelous Americans: Kim, Andrew, Alicia, and Lucy, for us all to share in the fun of our free Wednesday night!

I got asked to work for a quick 2 hours at Paddy’s (in case you missed it last time, I picked up a second job bar tending at a café/bar right near my home. It’s called Paddy’s Corner and I LOVE it!! It keeps me busy and is fun!). They had a group coming in to use the space for a little party of sorts and my job was to make sure they had everything they needed, including the peanuts, charcuterie (I don’t know if that translates… cut up meat, like salami and ham), red peppers soaked in butter and garlic, cheese, juice, water, etc. If they wanted “drink drinks” they’d have to go to the bar. So yeah, I carried little trays of food back and forth for two hours- my friends showing up at the bar to wait for me as I worked. At 9, when I got done, my bosses told me that if I wanted left over charcuterie and cheese I could take some ‘cause they had no use for the extras. BONUS!


So we headed back to my apartment where jello shots, rum and mixers were waiting for us. As the rest of my friends arrived we pulled out the jello shots and explained to the non-Americans how this process works- not hard… take a toothpick (or your finger) and dislodge the jello from the plastic shot glass. Then turn it upside-down and squeeze it out into your mouth. A tasty treat.


My roommates didn’t take part in the jello fun, though had certainly been invited to do so; Will went to meet up with some friends and I think Olivier was scared of them, haha.


Around 11:30 or so we all left the apartment so that Olivier could go to bed- he did, after all, have work the next day. We headed to one of the bar boats, Sirius. I had never been there on a Wednesday night, but I was hoping it’d be just as fun as the previous Saturday night I had been there- good music, good dancing, good fun!

Not too bad- the main dance floor wasn’t open but there was a little live music on the main deck (enclosed, it’s too cold to all be outside!). I was THRILLED to find live music!! I had been searching for it for a while now and I just happened upon it this evening! What wonderous luck!


The small group that played/sang wasn’t bad- they were a “rock”-cover group- playing mostly American songs that might or might not actually fit into the “rock” genre. Everything from Beach Boys to Beatles to something a little more swing-esque. Alicia danced with me a little bit and we all just kind of chilled and hung out ‘till around 1:30. By then, my roommate Will had joined us and half the group was starting to tire. Alicia, Kim, Lucy and Andrea all went home and Andrew, Will, Michelle and I (along with two of Will’s friends from school) all went in search of somewhere to really dance- not to half-way decent randomness, but to “dance music”—you know, that crappy music you’d never listen to outside of a bar but is great to get you moving- SOS by Rihanna for example.

As we walked the streets in the direction of a bar Will insisted was open until 3AM we quickly realized that Wednesday nights are not like Friday and Saturday nights… even on the night before a Grand Gréve… sure enough, we got to the bar to find it closed. After standing there for a minute trying to figure out where to go and what to do I saw a group of French guys walking the street together. So… I did what anyone would do… I yelled at them for help:


« LES FRANCAIS!! On cherche quelque part pour danser! Qui est toujours ouvert ? Vous allez ou ? »

This of course means, “HEY FRENCH PEOPLE!! We’re looking for somewhere to dance! What’s still open? Where are you going?”


I’ll spare you the French discourse and just tell you that their response was along the lines of, “The night’s over, everything’s closed” to which I responded, “but the foreigners want to dance!” to which they replied that there was nothing still open, they apologized and headed on their way. We thanked them, said our goodbyes and each headed towards home.


Finishing the night with a PBJ on French bread made up for our lack of dancing though-- it was apricot jam because we didn't have anything else... and it was the end of the bread, so it was a little hard and difficult to bite... but it was delicious nonetheless :)


I think it was a highly successful Wednesday night!

mardi 27 janvier 2009

Annnnnd I'm a Sap

I chose to finish off my night with a movie- it'd been a decent enough day, got some dancing in at the school again (with my baby crowd of lyceeans [highschoolers] watching at the end) and I bought my tickets for Malaga, Spain today!!! (With help from a wonderful mother who helped me through frozen credit card issues... ick)

I decided to watch The Tigger Movie- my sister's suggestion :) Tigger does happen to be my favorite Disney character. In truth, Regan suggested the movie a while ago and I'd been putting it off a little because I'd seen it before, and to be honest, it's a little sad. Tigger gets all lonely because he doesn't have a family and then he goes looking for them all sad and depressed in the middle of winter... I was afraid it would touch home just a bit too well, lol. But since I'd been feeling better lately I decided to go for it all the same. And I'm proud to say I made it all the way to the end without tears... well... until they rolled the credits...

Sunny days and starry nights
And lazy afternoons
You're countin' castles in the clouds
And hummin' little tunes
But somehow, right before your eyes
The summer fades away
Everything is different
And everything has changed
If you feel lost and on your own
And far from home
You're never alone, you know
Just think of your friends
The ones who care
They all will be waiting there
With love to share
And your heart will lead you home

Funny how a photograph
Can take you back in time
To places and embraces
That you thought you'd left behind
They're trying to remind you
That you're not the only one
That no one is an island
When all is said and one

If you feel lost and on your own
And far from home
You're never alon, you know
Just think of your friends

The ones who care
They all will be waiting there with love to share
And your heart will lead you home

There'll come a day
When you're losing your way
And you won't know where you belong
They say that "Home is where the heart is"

So follow your heart
And know that you can't go wrong

If you feel lost and on your own
And far from hom
You're never alone, you know
Just think of your friends
The one who care
They all will be waiting there
With love to share
And your heart will lead you

By Kenny Loggins

Now you tell me you wouldn't shed a couple tears!!!! Ok… so I’m a sap… runs in the family ;)

And for your viewing pleasure:

lundi 26 janvier 2009

Bar tending

"I have a bet going with my friend, and I think I lost... are you Irish or English?"

"Neither, I'm American"

Oh good times :)

vendredi 23 janvier 2009

My Week- Monday to Sunday

In the US a week starts on Sunday; all our calendars go Sunday through Saturday. That's not how things work in France- here, the week starts on Monday. Calendars go Monday through Sunday. And thus my week starts on Monday:

Those of you who are up to date with my ramblings (which I admit can be a daunting task... again a reference to my inability to be brief) know that on Monday something exciting happened: I received my Carte de Sejour and, after 5 long months, I'm finally legal to be living and working in France!!! Wooohoooo!!! Thus Monday was a wondrous day.

Tuesday began as many of my Tuesday's begin- I slept until around 8:45 or so, got up and showered and got ready for school leisurely and was out of the apartment around 10:15, to be at the train station by 11, to get to work by noon. Classes went well, as they usually do when I'm prepared. After both classes (Class 1: noon to 1, break [during which time I called my lovely sisty-ugler to wish her a Happy Birthday!!], Class 2: 2 to 3) I went over to the P building- I'm not entirely sure why they have this building. It's just off of the regular part of the school; I think the two classrooms there might have, at one point, been used while they were doing construction on other parts of the main building. At any rate, this is where they have a nice wood floor and I was told I could use this space to dance in whenever I wanted, as long as there wasn't something else going on- aka, almost whenever I want.

So I took off my heels and my nice pants (I always dress up to go to work) and put on a pair of cut-of sweatpants and my jazz shoes, plugged in my iPod speakers and my iPod and went at it. For about an hour and 15 minutes I stretched and danced to my hearts content. I had my iPod on shuffle and just changed styles as the songs came. I practiced turns and while my intention was to maybe start a new choreography piece I ended up just dancing around and enjoying that freedom. I worked myself harder than the just-ok-ballet class that I take occasionally and it felt good to be pushed, to be tired, to feel my muscles really working and to MOVE! For about the last 10 minutes or so I started to gain an audience, which might have been awkward had I not been living the incredible high of endorphins coursing through my body. The P room I was in has windows that face the main part of the school and if you are on the second level of the main building you can pretty easily look down the windows in the hallway into the room I was dancing in. It started with just a small group of a couple of students and built, over 10 minutes or so, to be about 15 or so. Then as I started to slow down, stretch out and cool down they dispersed. It will be interesting to see if this phenomenon continues and if, as I begin to formulate a schedule, the students will continue to flock to the 2nd floor corridor to observe me. I kind of hope not...

After my marvelous hour 15 of dance I changed back into my regular pants and my heels and met up with Helene, the mother of my flat mate Olivier. She was having me over for dinner and then I would spend the night at her house and she'd take me to work on Wednesday morning. Helene is a super nice woman who is a little shy and a little nervous about her English but so welcoming and kind of cute in her shyness.

We got back to her house and, after a quick shower to freshen up, sat down and tried to make the TV work in order to watch Obama's speech. She, nor her husband, watch much TV and we couldn't get it to work just right, so eventually I pulled out my computer and we watched via CNN.com. Roger, a recently-retired English teacher from my Lycee, also came over and we drank tea, ate cookies and watched the speech together. It was interesting to watch it with non-Americans but I think they appreciated it for what it was nonetheless. And it was nice to feel connected to home.

After the speech Roger had to go and then Olivier's dad and I played some sort of checkers-like game that was slightly complicated to figure out, but interesting and fun once you go the hang of it. I kept chuckling inside as he would say repeatedly, "C'est drole! C'est tres tres drole." When I would make a move. Which means, "That's funny. That's very very funny", but he would say it so dryly and really, it's more of a strategy game, not a "funny" game. Well, maybe you had to be there to understand, but I at least, chuckled inside.

I chatted with Helene a little bit and then we got the table ready for dinner. Catherine, one of my favorites of the English teachers at the school, joined us for the evening. We had a little wine and then sat down to eat. As usual, Helene's cooking was delicious and as usual, Catherine was great company. It was a very pleasant evening!! (We had a random conversation about the deliciousness of poptarts, for which I had to get my computer back out in order to find a picture and fully explain what a PopTart really is.) :)

In the morning Helene took me back to the Lycee and I began teaching at 9. (I usually teach at 8 on Wednesdays but my first class had been canceled as the students had an exam). Again, things went well- I covered a document that I think is actually really interesting:



I'm not sure if I've explained this, but several of my classes are preparing for an exam where they will be given a document, such as this one, and they'll have to talk, based on the document provided, for 5 to 10 minutes (depending on their level). So we often cover documents in class.





Anyway, classes passed as normal. Veronique, one of the math teachers at the Lycee, had invited me back to her place for dinner (and thus to spend the night), so we headed back to her place after not-very-tasty cafeteria lunch. She has an adorable 7 year old daughter named Lucy, who we picked up from day-care. Then Lucy invited her friend and neighbor, Marion (who she kept calling Marionette, to which Marion sometimes replied, "That's not my name!") over and the 4 of us went for a nice walk in the countryside. (Veronique had to lend me some shoes- there was no way I could walk around the country for an hour in my heels!) We passed some horses and an old church. The girls played at park we passed for a few minutes. We wound our way through some back streets that had ancient walls on one side or the other until we came upon the castle in this little country village. Veronique took a couple of pictures of me and the girls in the castle park and then we headed home where we all put on aprons and make a chocolate cake.

After a short but fun dance party of sorts Marion went home and then Lucy settled down to do some homework. Veronique showed me pictures from a trip she had taken to Arizona a few years ago and then we started putting dinner together. Her husband, Eric, came home and we ate and then put in a French movie that takes place in Spain that seemed to have a humor style along the same sort of lines as Young Frankenstein. I grasped the majority of it, but there were certainly things that, in the speed and poor pronunciation of the characters' speech, I missed. But it was amusing anyway- well at least the part I saw. Lucy went to bed around 9:45 and, exhausted as I was after 2 full days of speaking LOTS of French, I was perfectly content when they suggested we watch the rest of the movie another time and the adults hit the hay around 10:30 or so.

Thursday morning Veronique drove me back to the school, with a quick stop at a local cafe for a morning coffee. (They had the CUTEST little puppy there!!) I had class from 9 to 10, again, more 20 Questions fun, and then a 2 hour break, during which time I planned lessons with another teacher and ate lunch, then class again from noon to 1. After my classes I went back over to the P building for "repetition" (rehearsal) for the Carnival show.

Small explanation: Nathalie, one of the teachers, organizes a teacher show for carnival every year. It is her life and, while I've been told that usually the other teachers are more compliant than they have been this year, no one else puts in as much effort as she does. She spends hours working with teachers and choreographing. In short, she lives for the Carnival show.

So yeah, I went over there and spent an hour and a half trying not to laugh as we worked on the Finale piece and reviewed the basketball section and the flame section-- this year's theme is olympics- so there are 5 of us that are the flame, we start the show using orange and yellow material to represent the fire; then there are a series of sports "dances" including basketball and synchronized swimming (thank the Lord I'm not doing swimming as I found out those people doing the swimming section are supposed to wear swim suits on stage!!). (Note: if you're not laughing right now at the images I have set before you then it should only be because your mouth is hanging open in shocked horror at what I have gotten myself into, haha).

After "rehearsal" I walked back to the train station and, after my double overnight, headed back to Lyon. While on the train I got a call from Carl from Paddy's Corner- a cafe/bar in the Croix-Rousse where, upon hearing they were looking to hire an English speaker, I turned in my resume. I had already interviewed and I was told they would call me to set up a trial of sorts. This was that call. Carl asked if I could come in from 6 to 9 to try things out. Excited, I made my way home, took a quick nap to rest my brain and then got ready and headed to Paddy's.

Carl showed me around the bar and did a basic explanation of where things are and how you use them. ie: espresso machine and how it works, how to pour a beer and which are which, bottled bears are here, non-alcoholic drinks are here, this is how you use the cash register, this is how we wash dishes, blah blah blah.

Then, with only 20ish minutes of explanation under my belt, he let me at it. I started taking orders and asking people what they wanted. Despite the potential hire as an English speaker, I was using much more French than I was English and by the end of my three hours, which were both busy and fun, I understood that "un pegh de gunie" was french for "a pint of Guinness" and that a Monaco was made with grenadine, lemonade and Carlsberg beer (ICK!). At 9:00 when Carl told me, "after that don't take any more orders" I was a little disappointed to be stopping. This was the first time I had been busy, completely occupied for a LONG time and it was liberating to feel that pressure of having so much to do! People to serve and drinks to make. Dishes to clean and put away. Tables to clear. It was wonderful! I have missed being busy almost more than I've missed anything else from the states (people excluded obviously). I have talked some about missing driving, missing certain foods- Mexican mainly, missing 24 hour grocery stores and other such American things. But of all the random things I miss, being busy is what I miss most. I sit around (often in front of this computer) far too often. I don't do enough with my time. Hence my desire to have a second job! And what a perfect second job to have. Not only will it fill my free time, the time I am working will be filled with that pressing feeling that there's always something that needs to be done.

Those of you reading this now thinking I'm crazy, thinking that living a life of leisure is so much better than living in the hustle and bustle, I'd like you to contemplate taking 6 months off of work and making no plans to fill it. No meetings, no bible studies, no sports or YMCA memberships, no rehearsals, no school, no "extra curricular activities" of any kind. Now also imagine that you have to stay in one place- you can't travel for whatever reason. For the first month, maybe even two, this is WONDERFUL! You can read, watch movies, take walks, knit, have coffee in a cafe, relax! But think... after that, it starts to get colder outside and taking walks aren't as appealing. You get a little board of "relaxing" and you've watched pretty much all the movies in your limited collection (well, at least my collection is limited). You run out of books to read and either need to buy new books (which I haven't done because I'm trying to save money) or borrow books from friends (which would work much better if friends offered them freely, but that doesn't happen as often as I'd like). After a while you'd get board and you'd want to start refilling your life with things. But now imagine that you are in a foreign place where all those "extracurricular" are either hard to find or too expensive. This is my life. As you can imagine, working 12 hours a week feels like NOTHING! And I haven't had much to fill it with. Now perhaps, if you've got a decent enough imagination, you'll understand why I'm so excited to work hard, to be busy and to fill my time!! I'm actually more excited to be working than I am to get paid for it. Although that is clearly a bonus. :)

Ok, enough on that. I'm excited and Carl and I are going to talk again on Monday. I'll start the first of February! :) Woohooo!

Thursday night I stayed up preparing a lesson on Obama's speech- one of the teachers asked me to lead the whole class on it for Friday and I hadn't, as yet, had the time to work on it. I stayed up late reading and rereading, watching clips and highlighting segments, thinking of questions and ways to make it interesting. I even looked up Bush's speech from 2001 to compare it to. By 1:30 am I was toast and decided that what I had done was good and I was going to bed.

I was back in Amberieu by 9AM to teach my first class and then, for the second, was slightly frustrated when, instead of doing what I had spent all night preparing, we went through a worksheet they had been given for homework regarding American history. It was interesting enough, they had to find dates (July 4th, 1776 for example, the dates of the civil war and the "I have a Dream Speech") and people (George Washington, Mark Twain, Billie Holiday) and places (Washington D.C). What they found was interesting and I filled in holes where they struggled. They spoke and it was a good class. Just slightly frustrating that I had stayed up late preparing when there was no need. We'll do my Obama lesson next week Friday instead.

Friday afternoon I came home (as in back to Lyon) and then met up with my friend Kim. We went to a great little cafe in the Croix-Rousse called Au Bout du Monde (At the end of the earth) and sat there drinking cafe au lait (espresso with milk) and looking up kitchen words. Kim and I had decided to start doing random vocabulary lessons- we wanted to learn everyday words we didn't know and may or may not ever need, but still, good to know: aka: a ladle is une louche; a colander is une passoire; a bathroom sink is un lavabo but the kitchen sink is l'everie. Things like that. Then we went back to Kim’s and hung out for a while, finally deciding to make dinner. We made a highly delicious, highly American meal of steak, potatoes and green beans. Mmmm! So tasty! (We did mash our own potatoes for anyone who wanted to know) And of course we drank wine with dinner, as always!

Then Kim and her boyfriend and some of his friends went to a hookah bar and I, being more inclined to dance, met up with Olivier and Lionel and the three of us went to the bar boat Serieuse where we danced the night away to the strangest mixture of disco, R&B, techno, French, rock and rap. It was actually ridiculously fun! They played everything from "Hit the Road Jack!" (for which I actually kicked off my heels- much easier to dance that way!) to "SOS". There were some old 90s songs mixed in with random 70s disco. It was a blast!

Today is Saturday. It is currently 2:22 and I am only left my bed to eat breakfast and chat for a while with my roommates. I'm hoping to have the motivation to get dressed and go to the library... I think it's open today...

I'm highly excited for tonight's plans: Anastasia and her boyfriend Joe (assistants I haven't gotten the chance to hang out with yet, but who seem like fun and who live up here in Croix-Rousse) and I are going to meet up around 7 to buy some cheese. Then we're going to head down to Marine's place where we'll meet up with Andrea (German assistant) and another friend of Marine's. We are then all changing into PJs and we're going to sit around and eat veggies, salad and cheese, drink wine, knit, watch movies and, hopefully, enjoy a marvelous evening! I'm highly excited!!!

Also in the horizon is mass at a different church. While you all start the new week in the States, I shall finish mine up. On Sunday, I'm hoping the one I'm going to try has more life (and a slightly younger crowd) than the one I usually go to up here in the CR. It's down in the main part of town and I've been told its better. They have services at 10:00, 11:30 and 7PM. Already this seems to be more practical for a younger crowd and I'm hoping that it will be good. I'll let you know.

Love, Hugs, and Smiles to everyone!!

lundi 19 janvier 2009

Carte de Sejour

Last Friday I recieved a notice in the mail- my carte de sejour was ready! All I had to do was go to the prefecture and get it.


So last night I set my alarm for 8:30. The Prefecture opens at 9:30- I would go right away, get it out of the way, then have the rest of my day to do whatever.


This morning arrives and of course I did not get out of bed at 8:30. Instead I stayed in bed until about 9:45. Then I did not get ready right away and go to the prefecture... I did, after all, have all day... what was the hurry?


So I grabbed breakfast, my computer and my comforter and watched Dead Poet's Society on the couch in my PJs. Wonderful movie! Nice relaxing morning.


Then I got dressed and ready to go. I looked up the address of the prefecture just to be sure I knew where I was going and then headed out the door. On my way there I realized I didn't bring my recipise with me (the pre-cursor to the carte de sejour that says you've turned in your paperwork). Oh well, I'd go check it out anyway, maybe I didn't need it.


It starts raining as I walk there, but I'm in such a wonderful mood (probably because of my leisurly morning) that I don't mind. It feels refreshing. I get to the prefecture and I went to the Welcome desk and explained that I was here to pick up my carte de sejour. The lady gave me a number and said the place to go was down the hall on the right.


So off I go with my number: 558. I get down and I see that they are on number 039 or something like that and I just about had a heart attack. Then the number changed to 487 or somewhere in that range and my heart began beating again, just in time. It was around this time that I decided I had better be sure as to whether or not I needed that other piece of paper. I got back in the Welcome line and when I got to the front I asked the lady if I NEEDED my recipece... indeed I did. Well, good thing I had about 70ish people ahead of me.


I walked back out into the rain, surprisingly still in a good mood, enjoying the light wind blowing my hair and the light rain sprinkling on my skin. I turned the iPod back on and headed back towards home.


The whole trip- there and back- took about 20ish minutes and was uneventful. When I got back to the prefecture, they were only on number 503. I had plenty of time. I sat down on the stairs with a book and began to wait. After a while the man in front of me and I started talking-- he was from Brazil and this was his 5th year in France and thus his 5th time getting his Carte de Sejour. He was a student for most of it and had just recently started teaching Entrepreneurship. We laughed about France, the French and the phases of living abroad: from falling in love with everything you see and taking in all the positives to becoming homesick and only seeing the negatives to the acceptance phase, where you take the good with the bad and are able to function normally- neither staring around in awe at what's around you like a tourist, not shlumping through the streets like the frustrated, lonely traveler.


We laughed about the carte de sejour process and about how France's primary goal seems to be to teach everyone patience. At which point I had a baby epiphany as that is something I had been praying for in my own life... more patience... how neat that after all this time this one man enlightens me-- after all, what beter way to learn patience than to test it.


Finally my number is called and I turn in my paperwork and 4 minutes later I walk away with my Carte de Sejour... on it my name is spelled with an s, despite all my efforts throughout the process to ensure that it be spelled with a z. Oh well, such is life.

(The prison photo picture was not my idea... you're not allowed to smile in French passport, etc. photos...)


So... after 5 months of working here, I am finally legal!!! Wooohooo!!


I walked out into the cloudy afternoon- the rain had stopped and walked back to the metro with a new lightness in my step. That difficulty is now behind me and I can legally work a 2nd job if I find one. As the clouds parted just a touch I could see the blue skies high above. Perhaps this is the start of phase 3, I thought to myself smiling. It can only get better from here.

dimanche 18 janvier 2009

Splendiferous Conversation

I love my Aunt Susie! We just talked on the phone for 3 hours and 10 minutes (with a small break at 2 hours when my phone randomly stops working and I have to call people back). Correction, we laughed for 3 hours and 10 minutes. :)

Best lines (you probably won't get these, but I'll still look back later and continue to laugh):
Mad as a big bee
Butters
Where's your secretary?
It would be nice... do I have to?
-Apoplectic? It's that that thing you stick people with when they've been stung by a bee?
-No, that's Epinephrin
You did this
You would have had 70 million thank yous, but because of buttermilk now it's only 50 million

... I feel like there are so many more things that should go on this list... we did a lot of laughing... but if you add everything then it no longer becomes a "best lines"

What a wonderful way to end the night!

jeudi 15 janvier 2009

A Good Day

Today is a good day.

I got up, showered and whatnot, left for work. Had a nice, leisurely train ride and walk to the school. I taught two classes, taking a break to work on some lesson preparation and eat lunch in between. Then I went to the spectacle répétition (rehearsal for the semi-lame teacher dance show that we'll be putting on for Carnival in March). This woman who is leading it is SO into it! She takes everything so seriously. I think she resents it that I haven't been there for all the practices, but all the other teachers take so long to pick up the material I just skip 3 at a time and then come and get it all at once, haha.

Then I got a ride home from the new English teacher (the one who replaced Roger, who retired in December). She lives in Cuire, which is literally right next to Croix-Rousse. So that was wonderful because we were able to talk all the way home and get to know each other a little. She's the youngest of the English teachers and we might get to be friends. :)

Then, being a little hungry, I decided to eat a delicious PBJ with magnificent Jif Peanut Butter and tasty, fresh, French jam on perfect French bread... ahhh! YUM!

To finish it off I decided to eat some of milk's favorite cookies (the Oreo!!!) with some hot chocolate. What a splendiferous combination!!

I found out I am for sure going to Malaga, Spain and I'm rediculously phyced for it!!! I will go on or around the 7th of February and spend a week with some of the nicest people ever who will introduce me to everyone I meet as "Ann Galloway's Grandaughter", which is a wonderful and fun thing!!

And to cap off this marvelous day-- in a few hours I will be heading to Lyon's Maison de la Danse to see a dance concert by Choreographer Pina Bauche.

Life IS good!

Love and Hugs to all!!

PS- to those of you back home dealing with -40 wind chills... I am dreadfully sorry and I hope you can all stay inside in the warmth and keep yourselves out of the frigidity!!! Bundle up with a good book and some hot chocolate (and oreos if you have them!!). I'm sending warm thoughts your way!

Random fact: 40 below is the same in Celcius as it is in Fahrenheit... and -30 F = -34.4 Celcius; -20 F = -28.8 F; the equation, if you'd like it is (Degree F - 32) X 5 / 9 = Celcius

mercredi 14 janvier 2009

Determination overtakes Homesickness

So... I took my sister to the airport on that Friday- the 3rd or whatever it is. I then came back and spent the rest of Friday, all day Saturday and most of Sunday sitting up in my bed, computer with me, watching movies or uploading photos. I avoided my roommates and just sort of wallowed in my distractions of that "my family just left me and I'm lonely" feeling.

But with the start of the week came the return of routine. And thus I was out of bed and working and seeing people-- good things. I was trying to plan my February vacation (yeah, I know... we just had Christmas vaca, now we have "winter vacation"... in April we'll have "spring vacation"... I never work really). At any rate, I was planning and I was struggling. In the typical post-holiday-blues fashion I was lonely and as much as I really wanted to see Vienna and Prague (and still do) I didn't want to travel alone. I tried to find people to travel with me. I even asked a couple of my previous travel buddies from the states if they'd be willing to fly over the big blue ocean and rejoin me. Insert Sad Face. No such luck. What? You mean people have lives and jobs and obligations and careers? What kind of crap is that? Sigh...

For one day I considered coming home for a vacation. I seriously considered it. I sat there looking at the rediculously cheap airfare and, still immersed in self-pity I called/ messaged all those people who I thought might bring me to my senses. See, I knew in my HEAD that I shouldn't come home. I knew in my HEAD that I should travel and I should take advantage of being here. I knew in my HEAD that I was in Europe and I needed to enjoy it while I could. But my HEART was pounding so loudly in my ears that it missed home I could barely think. I google-chatted with Shawn and John and I called Janki. These are people who adored travel. These are people who will make me appreciate where I am and they are the people who will quiet my heart long enough that I can hear my head. And I was right- they did just that. They were all very sypathetic in saying that if I really needed it, of course I could come home. But they all drove the point home as it needed to be done-- I think the best comment was, "home will always be there; you, however, won't always be there*. (*there being France) Once you are home the adventure may be over, so live the adventure now."

So outside of one super fun international soiree last weekend (I went out with a Brazillian, 2 Columbian, a girl from El Salvador, and 2 other Americans-- good fun!), these past 2 weeks have sort of sailed by in stagnant quiet as movies, planning vacation, and wallowing overtook my life.

But determination has taken a good strong hold of me now and I'm already feeling better. First of all, I decided not to travel alone but also not to go home. I'm going to try and visit family friends in Spain. This way I'll be with people and I'll have a sort of "family" aspect to life, but I'll still be seeing and enjoying Europe while I have it. And besides... who doesn't want to go to the south of Spain and visit the beach? Secondly, I've taken a very old school tactic at feeling better- and by that I mean returning to old music to brighten my day. My current play list of cheer includes:


"L.O.V.E." by Frank Sinatra
"Please Mr. Postman" by the Marvellettes
"Mama Said" by the Shirelles
"Be My Baby" by the Ronetts
"Love Potion Number 9"... I have two different artists, so I don't know who it's really by
"Johnny B. Goode" by Chuck Berry
"Brown Eyed Girl" by Van Morrison
"California Dreamin'" by The Mama's and The Papa's
"Don't Worry Baby" by The Beach Boys
"The Grease Mega Mix" mostly by John Travolta
"The Sounds of Silence" by Simon and Garfunkel
"House on Pooh Corner" by Loggins and Messina
"My Girl" by The Temptations
"Vehevela" by Loggins and Messina
"When A Man Loves A Woman" by Percy Sledge
"Unchained Melody" by The Righteous Brothers
Several Beatles songs
That's not everything, but you get the idea. It makes me happy and keeps me smiling.
So with good music to keep me smiling, exciting plans to keep my chin up and the potential prospect of a 2nd job which would help fill some of my free time (I'm applying at a cafe/bar where they're looking for English speakers), I'm back to my smiley self. :)
I'm also thinking about seeing if a dance studio will let me come in for a couple hours a week and just use their space-- dance, choreograph, stretch- do whatever I need or want. This lack of endorphins from my lack of activity has to be messing with my system I've decided. :P
I probably won't stay here for another year, like I had origionally planned. But I'm no quitter!! I'm determined: I'm going to enjoy my time here as best I can and take on the adventures whilst they present themselves.

mardi 13 janvier 2009

A Sisterly Adventure

I know I'm a little behind, but such is life. I decided that despite being exactly 2 weeks from the date this adventure took place it would still be in my best interest to journal all of it that I can. And thus:


We got up early on Tuesday, December 30th. Regan and I had gone to bed the night before leaving, probably unwisely, the boys- aka EJ, Will and Olivier- with whatever was left in that bottle of Whiskey from the duty free shop and a dart board. Danger zone. But EJs a seasoned drinker and we only took a teensy bit longer than we planned to get out the door, and made it to my parents’ hotel in time to fill up the taxi with everyone's luggage. That is, EJ's, Dad's and Mom's. I said a very teary goodbye and as the taxi pulled away Regan helped pull me out of my would-be slump and off on a Sisterly Adventure.


We headed to the train station with a tiny little back pack each and caught the train to Avignon. Now Avignon, three years ago, was my absolute favorite city in all of France. It's a little beautiful walled city. It's right on the Rhone River and has old, windy streets and lots of character. I was there in late May, though and it was beautiful! Today weather.com had called for rain- 60% chance all day long... I was just hoping that we'd enjoy ourselves despite the weather and that my first impression of this lovely place wouldn't be ruined by a little rain.


Regan did a marvelous job of keeping me occupied on the train down and then keeping up a positive attitude despite the on and off rain all day. If not for her, this family-goes-home day could have been real rough. But no! We got off the train and we were all smiles as we took pictures in front of the wall, found baguette sandwiches to eat, found the tourist office to pick up a map and headed to the only youth hostel in town to try and book beds for the night.


The rain didn't stop us as we followed the walks mapped out on our tourist map and discovered parts of the city I had not seen 3 years earlier. We were lucky enough to find the Christmas Market still open- in fact, we were there on the last day of ouverture (is that an english word?? haha). So of course we profited (another French phrase... Il faut profiter, lol... I think we say we took advantage) of the situation and bought a lovely but inexpensive scarf each. We also happened upon this one really awesome shoe store where we each got a pair of shoes for 10 Euro!! In fact... we bought THE SAME PAIR!! Now my sisty and I have matching green flats! :)


We did more than just shop though- we paid the entrance fee that comes with an audio guide and made our way through the Palais des Papes (the Popes' Palace). It was actually a really neat museum that did a good job of walking you through the 9 Popes (sometimes referred to as "antipopes") that lived there while Avignon served as the other home to the Catholic Church from 1378 to 1417. (This time is known as the Great Western Schism-- feel free to wikipedia that if you'd like some more details.) They had these models of what the palace looked like back then and how each pope added this section or that section until it got to be the huge size it is today.


There was one room that showed frescos with their original sketched versions. It was cool to see the differences the artist made from the full size sketch to the completed work. I think in some cases I like the simplicity of the sketch better than the full color painting.



When we got done making our way through the palace and doing all the shopping we cared to do for the day we headed back to the main square to find a restaurant and my sisty treated me to dinner. After dinner we walked through the market once more and decided to buy these cookies that were on sale- snack food for the hostel- turned out to be a bad idea though because they were the worst cookies I've ever eaten! So gross!! We also picked up some wine (and coke in case we wanted that) and headed back to the hostel.


We settled into our PJs and got ready to play some cards and drink some wine when our roommate walked in. Sarah was from Calgary, Canada and we quickly dropped a couple of Cool Runnings lines before inviting her to join us in some cards. She accepted, though she didn't join us in our wine drinking, and thus the night ensued. Well, first Regan tried to make games up... games with no point and no way to win... she couldn’t remember the rules so we gave her some crap for it before switching to a mishmosh of everything including 10s and 2s, Go Fish, BS, Slapjack and War. :) It was a fun night.

The next morning we all (Regy, Sarah and I) ate free breakfast at the hostel and then walked back through the walled part of the city and up to Palais des Papes. Regan and I had not visited the church yesterday and Sarah hadn't seen any of Palais des Papes. So we did the church together and then wandered through the popes gardens and then picked up another "tourist walk" from our map and followed it through the old, narrow, winding streets, noticing the abbeys and the architecture as we wandered. We also took Sarah back to our favorite shoe store so she could get a cheap pair of shoes too. :) Sarah had to catch her train around 1:00, so we left her at the train station and went to go get some lunch. In our wandering yesterday we had seen a place with a delicious looking lunch menu and so we returned there for what was indeed a delicious meal. My sister ordered steak tartar, which I think might have made me throw up, but she loved it, and I got chicken in tasty mushroom sauce. Both came with fresh, home-cut fries. Yum. Then we too caught our train and headed back to Lyon to bring in the New Year!


Olivier had invited some people over (I tried but all the assistants were out of town!) and the party began around 8 or 9. He had made chicken wings in 3 different sauces for dinner along with the chips and snacks we had to munch on. If any photo is indicative of where an evening is headed, this should be it: this was the first photo taken for the evening.





As we continued to eat, drink and be merry my cell phone rang and I answered it to hear random French coming back at me. I handed the phone off to someone who would be able to understand better (french on the phone is hard when you're in a quite room by yourself, let alone when you have english, spanish and french going on around you). Turns out they were a radio station asking me what my favorite radio station was. I didn't listen to french radio I said to the room and the Frenchies all started quickly brainstorming which station was on the phone... they yelled a couple different answers before I think the other line got frustrated and honestly, I don’t know who hung up first, us or them. A little while later we realized that my phone service is tied to NRJ (pronounced energy in French) radio station... duh!! Oh well, no huge winnings for me this new years.

At some point in the evening it was asked that I do an exhibition of my tap dancing skills so Olivier pulled out a couple of wood boards to put on the floor and I pulled out my tap shoes. Not having anything prepared and not having tapped since May I just sort of spit off some random steps, but yeah... that was... interesting... the boards kept moving underneath my feet and I was worried I was going to step on someone's hand as they went to push it back under my feet... ahh impromptu tap, haha.

To Olivier's slight frustration we started having way too much fun picking out music choices. A playlist of sorts-- this is what we can remember at least (and I mean that in a "who remembers every song played the night before" way not a "we were so drunk we can't remember what we sang and danced to" way- promise!!):

Black Eyed Peas- “Let’s Get Retarded”
“Sweet Dreams”
“Girls Just Wanna Have Fun” by Cindy Lauper
“Total Eclipse of the Heart”
Celine Dion (around here I was on the phone with Aunt Susie I think... I just remember feeling the distinct need to get off the phone for the next song, haha)
Ace of Base “I Saw The Sign”
Spice Girls “Wanna Be”
Brittany Spears “Toxic” “Womanizer” “Hit Me Baby, One More Time”
Akon “Right Now (Na Na Na)
Duex chansons francais que je ne connais pas
Rita Mitsuko “Andy”
OAR “Crazy Game of Poker”
“Voyage Voyage” (french)
Some sort of Arab Rap
Kiss
We did the Electric Slide to Achy Breaky Heart (and Marion, Lionel’s girlfriend, actually picked it up and did it with Regy and I!!)

This is a condensed list, but you get the idea... it was a crazy night... and there was much dancing and singing that went with it all (I was going to upload a photo... I failed... check the Picasa site soon though and they'll be there)


I also remember that when it actually turned midnight Regan and Will and I tried to clang pots and pans together- as is the tradition in the Bertke household- only to get a sour look from the owner of said pots and pan. (Laughter!!!)

I honestly couldn't tell you around what time we went to bed. I know before the night was over Will and I did Tequilla shots (only two) and that at some point Regan decided to take "butt shots"-- photos of everyone's tush





The next morning, after cleaning and breakfast, Regan and I went to explore Lyon. And despite the warning that "Nothing would be open, it was the 1st of the year. Regan won't even be able to buy cigarettes" we managed not only to get cigarettes and a free lighter (for the cute American) but we also had a cup of hot chocolate at one of the many open cafes in Vieux Lyon and had a delicious hot crepe while visiting the touristy part of the city. It was a leisurely but cold day and we headed back to the apartment that afternoon to pack up Regan’s stuff and relax in warmth before she would head back to the good old US of A the very next morning.

I got up with her on Friday and took the 40 minute bus to the airport. Once all checked in we sat and had some not very good hot chocolate and said our last goodbyes. Then she went through security and I went home. It was sad to see her go, but it had been one hell of a Sisterly Adventure! What a rockin' few days we had together!

samedi 3 janvier 2009

Who What Where When Why How... distractions

Where am I: Lyon, Rhone-Alps, France—more specifically in my bed, where I’ve been for more than a full 24 hours now.

What am I doing here: the immediate answer is that I’m watching movies, futzing around on facebook, uploading pictures and videos from vacation and blogging. The long answer is much more complicated…

I felt called to come to France. I thought, no I knew, that God wanted me here. And it’s true, it has been wonderful and I do love it… but I’m not in love with France anymore, not like I used to be. Maybe the whole idea was for me to meet lots of people who will become important in my life through travels and work and have lots of experiences that will make/have made me grow as a person. Maybe that’s why I’m here… that wasn’t the question was it? Damn.

What am I doing here: I am teaching English… sort of… I chat it up with the high schoolers and I give them a couple of vocab lessons. I’m their “oral expressions” teacher I suppose you could say. We sing, we chat, we play games… if that is called teaching, then yes, I’m teaching. I’m traveling as much as possible and enjoying as much as I can on a condensed budget… which seems to get more and more condensed as time goes on. Soon I’ll be eating bread and yogurt in an attempt to save money for travels.

Why am I doing it: again, the easy answer is because it’s distracting and easy and I’m lazy and in need of distraction— the last of my visiting family left yesterday and after shedding a few tears I threw myself into movies and photos and facebook and blogging… seemed like the best option. I’m still without distraction from work or other assistants who have not yet returned so while I could knit, that leaves me free to think and thus be sad about my departed family. This allows me to be mindless… or at least think about things in a more productive (uh huh, sure) way… to be analytical, I’m good at that.

The long reason… why am I here, in France, sudo-teaching English? Like I said, I felt called. Do I feel like I’m doing God’s will at this moment in time… I’m not sure… I don’t know what He wants of me anymore. I thought I would find some greater purpose when I got here. I just felt so compelled to be back here and it all worked out so perfectly, it HAD to be what He wanted… I just went with it and hoped I would find my greater purpose upon arrival. Perhaps travelling and meeting people and growing as a person through my experiences is the greater purpose… but I still feel slightly unfulfilled. I am not giving back- the Bible study I found meets once a month (and they’re not meeting at all in February) and I don’t really have a strong sort of Faith community and I haven’t found a way to donate my time or energy… It’s just… I don’t know… I guess I should get used to not having answers. Why am I here? I don’t really know. Because I was in Love with France. I still like it here… I’m just over it, haha.

When will I leave: hmmm… I might be getting hungry, it is about 2:30 in the afternoon and all I’ve eaten were some cheese crackers my parents lovingly brought from home. I might have to leave my bed to feed myself soon. And a shower wouldn’t be a bad plan either.
I don’t know when I’m leaving France. There’s that stupid phrase again, “I don’t know”… my contract is up on the 30th of April. I’m thinking of extending it for a month if possible. Which means I write a letter to the principle of my school/the rectorat asking if they’ll pay me to work one more month. That would take me to the end of May and then in June I’d hopefully do a little more travelling and perhaps some working… I might be teaching dance by that point… again I don’t know… I’d like to go to Ireland in July to see my Grandma who will be there for the International Sister Cities Convention and to spread Mrs. Zammit’s ashes. Then… who knows… home? Maybe. Very Possibly in fact. I miss my family. I miss my friends. I miss the ease of home. I could go back to that life I think. I’m ready for it.

What then: There’s that pesky I don’t know again. School probably. I’m still considering going to Physical Therapy school in Aberdeen, Scotland- which would rock really, despite the cold, it would be amazing. If that’s the plan then I need to get some science under my belt first… perhaps I could move into an apartment with my best friend Mary Kate and I could go to school for a year or two and she could tutor me when I fail. J I’d have a nice long stint at home again, being with friends and family for a year or two before taking off to beloved Europe again. This is what, at the present moment, seems to make the most sense. Opinions on the amount of sense this actually makes are more than welcome as I’m really not sure if it makes any sense at all… but at least it’s not another “I don’t know”.

What questions have we covered? Where, What, Why, When and another What. I’m missing Who and How.

Who: My Daddy said something to me recently that I find to be very profound. He said that he sees in me that I have a very good sense of Who I Am. That’s interesting. I suppose if I had to I could write an entire dissertation on Who I Am. I’m not sure it would be definitive though, and I think that is the very point. People change. Experiences change people. People change people. I believe you can’t always be 100% sure of who you are and what you think because those things change regularly. But to have a very good idea is a very good thing. Be open to new possibilities and new ideas, but be secure in self being. There is a difference between being secure in your self and being 100% sure of yourself.
There is a quote from the child’s film Furngully. Batty says to the guy (whose name I don’t remember) “Only fools are positive” and the guy asks Batty, “Are you sure?” and Batty says, “I’m positive!” hahaha. I love it.
The point is that if you are positive, if you are set in your view with no way out of it, no way to be influenced and no way to see other perspectives, you are a fool. You can’t be 100% sure of yourself. You’d be a fool. But you can be secure in the beliefs you hold and the view of yourself that you have without closing off all those other options. In fact, I think the more open you are to the perspective of others the more you probably have a pretty good handle on yourself. It is an incredible compliment to be told by my dad that I have a very good sense of Who I Am. J

How: How did I turn into this person: experience. I chose to take French for two reasons: 1. when I was in grade school we had this terrible Spanish teacher. I didn’t like her at all and I thought she dressed very inappropriately for a Catholic Grade School- wearing tight white pants with colored thongs or sweaters that had a little too much space in the knitting and not enough clothing underneath to cover her bra… it just didn’t seem right. So, in my little recent-8th-grade-graduate brain it made perfect sense to not continue with Spanish because I didn’t like my old teacher.
2. French is the language of ballet.

My first French teacher, Madame Welty, was fun and wonderful. I loved her class and while I’m not sure that my high school French education really prepared me to speak French in France, it gave me a foundation to build on and it instilled in me a love for the culture and the language. I vowed to go to France.

So I did. I went to a university with an amazing study abroad program and Caen, Normandy changed my life. From the people I met to the experiences I had there- it is a huge part in the in my making, in the HOW of my Who.

How does something change? I guess first there is the impetus for change- something that is present and slightly pushing. Then there is acceptance of this impetus- whether recognized and accepted or through some subconscious path we have to take said impetus into our lives. And third there is development or change- for better or for worse the impetus for change and the acceptance of that impetus has thus created change. So, by what means do we grow, as change and growth, while not always being interchangeable, are, by all means, linked. We grow by accepting impetus- we grown by experiencing. We grow by allowing our experiences to cause change in us. Every experience- from traveling to impromptu coffee-talks with friends to cooking to accepting love to giving love to prayer to dreams to journals and blogs--- everything you experience has the possibility to cause change in you, in me. It is part of having a good sense of Who You Are that allows you to be open to the experiences and grow from them without giving them too much influence over your life. It is a balance. If everything changed us, we would be like shape-shifters, constantly unsure of ourselves and never forming lasting relationships as our selves would be so inconsistent we would be incapable of forming lasting bonds with those who feel similarly about things as we do.

Holy philosophy batman!! I just started writing to distract myself and not be board… this is how my mind works though… scary, huh? I think I have to end this questioning craziness… it is now almost 3 and my roommates are finally stirring… perhaps it’s time for that shower and some food.

vendredi 2 janvier 2009

Pictures

Pictures that go with the long but gloriously fun stories below can be found at the links below. I have way more pictures than is probably necessary of the Swiss Alps and my family celebrating Christmas there!

Then I have even more or my family visiting Lyon and my sister and I in Avignoon!! Pictures Gallore!!! (I have not yet written the blog that corresponds to these) Check them out at your leisure :)


Verbier, Switzerland:
http://picasaweb.google.com/Elizabeth.Bertke/VerbierForChristmas?authkey=Ne-pbSgYCLM&feat=directlink

http://picasaweb.google.com/Elizabeth.Bertke/ReganSAndDaddySVerbierPicturesVideos?authkey=-qYJIvTTaqA&feat=directlink

Lyon and Avignon, France with Regan:
http://picasaweb.google.com/Elizabeth.Bertke/FranceWithMySisty?authkey=u5PasLFEgT4&feat=directlink

There will, eventually, be New Year's pictures... but I have had enough uploading for one evening. :)

Love and Hugs!
Elizabeth

Verbier for Christmas

Note: this is a VERY long post, but covers an entire week and is full of fun details :)

22 December 2008 (Monday)

I am with my family!! This is the best Christmas present I could ever have asked for!!

I left my apartment yesterday morning around 8AM and was at the train station in plenty of time to catch my 9:04 train. I got on uneasily, though, as the destination listed was not Geneva and no where did it list Geneva as a possible descent. But I was told this was my train and the numbers matched, so I boarded anyway.
I ended up sitting next to a very nice British woman (from Liverpool) and her daughter who had been living in Lyon for the past 8 years and were flying home to see family in Liverpool for the holidays. We chatted in English and figured out how to do our unexpected train change in Belgarde together. Then continued on and changed trains again in Geneva to head, together, to the Geneva airport. She was a delightful woman, though her daughter was very shy and barely spoke 5 words the whole ride— and when she did speak it was so quiet you could barely hear her. We parted ways in the airport as they headed off to catch a flight and I went in search of something to eat before I met my family. I grabbed some chips and a cart to unload my heavy, wine-filled bag in and headed towards the arrival place. It might be worth mentioning that prior to arrival in Geneva I was slightly worried that I was going to get some trouble at the boarder for bringing 6 bottles of French wine into Switzerland- at the very least I was probably going to have to pay some sort of tax. But thanks to marvelous accords between France and Switzerland “customs” was really just walking through a hallway from the track to the main terminal with a couple of gendarmes standing there- no passport check, no nothing. Woohoo!!

I knew I had some time to wait, but I was too excited to sit still enough to read. I needed something mindless… I pulled out my phone and played quadrapop- a stupid game where as the shapes fall you need to get 4 to touch each other and then they pop. You lose if they stack up- like the loser version of Tetris. I could only handle that for about 20 minutes; then I basically started pacing the airport. The flight was delayed and I had to wait for them to get in and go through customs (apparently Brussels and Switzerland aren’t on as good of terms as France and Switzerland). Once their plane was finally listed as having arrived I plastered myself to the window looking into baggage claim and waited, impatiently, until I could see them. It seemed like an eternity. As I waited I talked to the people around me, waiting for their friends and family to arrive. One French woman was waiting for her son to arrive from Brussels- the same flight as my impatiently awaited family. A British man and his daughter were waiting for some other woman on a flight from London. He and his daughter had a chalet in Verbier and said it was wonderful this time of year. The little girl was very excited about it. J

FINALLY, Regan popped into view and waved at me, then Mom came over, then Dad, then EJ. They searched for their luggage and I waited behind the glass, as eager as ever. At long last they collected all 5 suitcases, snowboard bag and all carry-ons and walked through the last hallway to each give me a hug. J

We moved on quickly to catch our train; so while Dad bought our train/train/bus tickets to Verbier I ran off to grab baguette sandwiches for 5 starving people, myself included as it was now about 1:15 and my bag of chips was not exactly holding me over. We grabbed our sandwiches and our tickets and hurried off to catch our train. There was some questioning as to whether or not we were about to board the correct train, but once we were sure we took the effort and loaded 5 suitcases, one snowboard bag, 2 carry ons, 1 duffle bag full of wine, 3 purses, 1 backpack, one computer bag and 5 weary travelers onto the train… well, 4 weary travelers, I was riding a new high, kicked off with the site and then hugs of my family. J

We took this train through the mountains, taking photos out the windows when possible and laughing the rest of the time. The 4 of them were exhausted, Regy actually fell asleep for a while on the train; but I didn’t care. Being with my family, actually seeing them, hearing the jokes and the teasing, hugging them and smiling with them… after three months away from the people I love most in this world, this, to me, was the best Christmas present I could have ever asked for!

But it wasn’t over yet. On the contrary, we were just getting started. As we approached our train change we knew we would have little to no time exit before the train would leave the station again. In fact, we already watched one man run back on in haste trying to get another suitcase he had mistakenly left behind only for the train to depart and he and his forgotten suitcase were then stuck on the train. So we prepped everything by the door and when we pulled in we unloaded through two separate doors as quickly as possible. Nicely done. Then we carried everything to another train track and loaded it onto another train. This one went winding through even more mountains with even more beautiful sites to see.

We arrived in La Chable, the village in the valley between several of the Alps’ beautiful peeks. We then grabbed the bus and zig zagged up the mountain side to the Verbier.

We transferred all our luggage once more from the bus to a taxi, picked up the keys and, at long last, trudged up the last few stairs (which, to those who had been traveling for approximately 24 hours, seemed like many more than just a few) to our own personal Chalet. This, for the next week, would be our new home.

As everyone started to get settled it became apparent that Christmas was truly only just beginning! They had so many treasures from home for me!! My hiking boots, my brand new snow boots, a pair of beautiful heels, sweaters, Christmas and birthday presents from Aunt Susie, Uncle Tom and Uncle Dave (and Uncle Scott, Aunt Donna and Aunty Karen obviously), a new external iPod charger (as my iPod no longer holds more than about 15 minutes of charge ever), and the greatest card ever- on which my mom, dad, brother and sister can all be heard wishing me merry Christmas all the way from home! This last one I promise I will listen to until it wears out and the recording fails to work. Such wonderful things!!! The stuff from home, despite it already being MY stuff that I had owned and used previously, seemed just as new and magnificent and fun as anything else. Regan took great care in bringing my knitting along, and that too, made me ridiculously excited! It was like, with every item we pulled out of suitcases, there was something else for me to get excited about. J

At long last we decided that food was required before they all crashed. We bundled up and headed up what we decided to call the “Hill of Death” or, in French, the “Colline de Morte” (a steep hill that seems to be consistently covered in ice/snow that we must walk up/ down to get in and out of our Chalet). We truly walked into the first restaurant we saw and sat down. We ordered off their slightly too expensive menu and made our slap happy way through dinner before coming home and crashing. Even I was tired and we were literally all in bed by 9:30.

Waking up in Verbier is one of the coolest things. At 7:30 I got out of bed and stood in the living room looking out the amazing view; the valley in front of me seemed to have been filled with a soft puffy layer of snow. In fact it was clouds. We were above the clouds and looking out the window, down across the valley and to the snow-covered peeks on the other side. My Dad woke up and joined me in taking in this amazing site.

I then went in search of some breakfast essentials such as coffee, juice and croissants. Easily enough found, I grabbed a few things and headed back to our chalet for a leisure-filled morning.

We finally got moving as a family and headed out to explore the town. We got fitted for our rental skis and visited a church in town to get some info about Christmas mass, wandered the streets and grabbed tasty pizza for lunch. As the sun started setting in the late afternoon the temperatures dropped from the beautiful 37ish (Fahrenheit) to getting a touch chilly and thus we made only a couple more stops to pick up new sunglasses- proper for skiing- for Regan and I, a new Swiss Army knife for EJ, and some nice cheese to go with some great wine… then headed back ‘home’.

We continued our relaxing first day of vacation with wine, cheese, and a scrabble game. Too bad 90 % of French words have 5 million vowels and very few consonants… it was kind of rough to play English scrabble with French chips. But a fun adventure nonetheless. After the game we whipped up left-overs plus grilled ham and cheese sandwiches for dinner. We played another family game, a dice game called Left, Right, Center, and chilled a little more before calling it a night as we were expected to hit the slopes… or at least pick up our skis, at 8:30 the following morning. Everyone decided that it was best to have a full, clear head about us as we take to these quite serious slopes tomorrow.

26 December 2008 (Thursday)

After what has been an exciting 4 days of skiing Dad and I turned in our skis today. Regy’s went back on Wednesday night and EJ, of course, keeps his snowboard and might even extend his pass another day to get a few more runs in tomorrow.

So, what have we been up to, here in the Swiss Alps? Well, I will tell you.

Tuesday morning we went to pick up our skis and meet Regan’s and my ski instructor, Maria. Not only was she a great ski instructor, but she was trendy enough to have dangly earrings that matched her ski jacket perfectly. She, along with her instructor in training, Tom, took Regan and me over to the bunny hill. No joke. When we told her we hadn’t skied in 10 years and only once or twice at that, she thought it was the best plan and Regan and I heartily agreed. We did a crash course (though truly we only fell down a couple of times) in skiing including how to side step up the hill, how to plow down and how to turn. We got the gist of balance in the skis and even used the T-Bar a couple of times. Maria assured us that we were doing great and was excited to see our quick progress. She took us back to the main lift from town where we met up with Mom and the boys. As we popped in for a bite to eat EJ and Dad told us about their morning of ski fun. We weren’t really sure what the menu had to offer as, even with my French, it seemed highly foreign. We all followed EJ’s lead and ordered what we thought was going to be some sort of dried beef sandwich. Note to self, don’t follow EJ’s lead when it comes to ordering food. The waiter brought us each a large cutting board covered in dried beef with a pickle and a tab of butter in the middle. Umm, what? We each ate a little of what was in front of us before asking it to be packaged up so we could take it home for snack food another day. Then we took to the slopes yet again.

This afternoon started a little more challenging that this morning. EJ and Dad said they’d take us to a nice flatish easy (Blue colored—translates to Green in most US ski resorts) part up on the mountain. Regan and I were nervous but excited to try out our morning’s education on the real thing. We took the Madran lift (which my dad mistakenly calls the Medrone just about every time he says it J) up and looked down on what looked to be a scary start. Regan decided that a combination of left over jet lag and a morning’s workout had left her too tired to attempt the run without causing injury and decided she’d join up with Mom back at the Chalet instead. So EJ, Dad and I headed down. It really wasn’t too bad. Yes, I fell down, but as my dad likes to say, you’re not working hard if you’re not falling down… while it might not always be the case, it certainly made me feel better. By the end of the run I was tired but proud! I had conquered Verbier!! Well, part of it. J

We came back to the chalet and Mom whipped up some delicious pasta for dinner. Then, after a nice little nap, the siblings decided it was time to get to know what Verbier’s nightlife had to offer us. First we headed to T Bar, a nice little place that usually has life music. As it so happens, Maria had told us she would be singing there this evening. Our nap had put us a little behind schedule, but we made it there in time to hear her last couple songs and then for a little post-performance chat. As the bar started to close down for the night we wondered where the night would be leading us and the answer seemed to pop up right in front of us. A girl was standing not 10 feet from us in front of was we presumed (wrongly as we discovered later) was her boyfriend. The guy had a bottle of white wine in his hand and we was trying to get her to drink it straight from the bottle. She seemed reluctant and embarrassed as she kept looking over at us. Finally she gave in and took a swig, spilling some down her chin as she went. Then laughed and came over to us to explain herself. This, she informed us, was a sweet, not very good white wine that needed to be finished. She handed the bottle around for everyone to take a swig in an effort to help her hopeless cause. In fact, the bottle went around twice and then her non-boyfriend finished it off. “Where were they headed for the night?” was EJ’s question and the non-boyfriend informed us that Coco’s was the place. If we mentioned his name, Will, at the door then we’d get in for free. Sweet. We finished our drinks and were only a few minutes behind them.

Now, Coco’s happens to be the swankiest bar in Verbier, an already expensive and exclusive resort town, where they serve a 12,000 franc (pretty much equivalent to 11,000 dollars) drink. It comes in an ice sculptured chalet- you drink out of the chimney. So when Will saved us the $20 per person entrance fee we thanked him profusely and EJ promptly bought him a shot. It was at this point that I decided it was best (for me, my tired and sore muscles and mostly, my wallet) if I stopped drinking. I’m more of a dancer when I go out anyway. But EJ, Regan, Will, and his non-girlfriend Amy all continued to drink the ridiculously overpriced (but rather tasty) cocktails. I sipped a little passion fruit martini and some absolutely amazing raspberry mojito. Amy, at some point, was given a Heineken by Will and when she didn’t wanted it was handed off to me. Not to be the waster of alcohol, despite my general opposition to beer I took it down anyway. The same fortunate experience also occurred for EJ as Amy passed him a beer. How generous.

We took to the dance floor for no where near enough time to satiate my dancing thirst but enough time to enjoy myself, certainly. And then as the bar manager came in to check on things for the night and thus putting a kibosh on the free drinks for Will and Amy (don’t get me wrong, EJ and Regan were still paying full price), we left the swanky Coco’s and headed around the corner to yet another bar. Will got us in for free once again (although I’m not sure there was actually a cover here… just a line that we skipped- nice friends, right?) and we went inside to continue the evening. It wasn’t long before Will and Amy peaced out and EJ found a new friend to talk to. Sam, the guy who had helped us with our boot fittings the day before, was at the bar. EJ and Sam started talking as Regan and I got more and more tired. Eventually we made it home, but not before EJ could secure a free waxing for his snowboard, which had been real dry and sticky. EJ’s good at making friends.

We arrived home around 3 am exhausted but pleased with our late-night excursions.

Wednesday was Christmas Eve and we hit the slopes again, well rested (we got a rather late start, as to be expected from out late night out) and ready to go. EJ and Dad took Regan and me over to another blue section on a different mountain side. Or so they claim. Regan and I both contest that they took us down some pretty Red looking sections (that would be the 2nd level… I think that’s ‘blue’ in the States). They were much much steeper than the nice easy trail they had taken me on the day before and Regan and I both took more spills than previously. Having an extra few afternoon’s worth of practice under my belt it wasn’t too bad for me, but Regy struggled and by the end was beyond exhausted. Getting up is hard work too!! There was only one last treacherous section to do in order to get to the lift that would take us back to the right side of the mountain where we could catch our bus home. We didn’t all make it down that last short section… well, at least not all on skis. EJ and I headed down the last section only to get to the bottom and look back up wondering where our partners in crime had disappeared to. Eventually we saw Regan walking down the hill with Daddy carrying her skis… again I think an umm, what? is in order.

Apparently we missed Regan take a fantastic header into a large snow mound that separates the ski section from the sledding section. Her skis did not pop off as they most definitely should have and instead she twisted her knee. She hobbled down the mountain and as we headed home, she put ice on it right away. I will save you the suspense- She is fine. After a couple days of hobbling around she’s back to her old self, but as vowed that skiing isn’t really her thing.

We all went to a great steak place called El Toro Negro for dinner. EJ was the brave one and had the “Mixed Grill” a platter that included beef, lamb, ostrich and kangaroo. “When else am I going to be somewhere in the world where I can eat kangaroo?” he asked us as he chose and ordered. Dad, Mom and I all went with a traditional steak, which sounded FANTASTIC to me after missing out a good quality, well cooked, delicious beef for the past 3 months. Regan had duck in honor of Nana, who does it fantastically. Everyone was highly pleased with their delicious dinner, accompanied by great wine and, of course, great company. J

We stopped back at home briefly in between dinner and Christmas Eve mass for a little drink and some fun stories. We eventually headed down, then up- as the streets permit, to get to the church. The service was in French, which was culture and fun for those who hadn’t been living in France recently, and was made even more so by the presence of a couple of Spanish guys here on some sort of University project. They sang and played most of the holiday songs in a very mariachi band sort of style. It was fun. The best part, for me at least, was actually walking up the streets to the church. The bells were ringing and I couldn’t help but think of that line from Chocolat where the mayor invites Vienne to “worship with us on Sunday” and Vienne responds, “that’s very kind of you but we don’t attend. But we will enjoy being so close to the church, the bells will be beautiful.” And then the mayor responds with the line that is pertinent, “The bells are not meant for entertainment, Madame, they are a call to worship.”

Walking up that hill (correction: mountain side), listening to the bells as they echoed around the valley, it was a beautiful and almost breath-taking experience. But not only was it beautiful to hear; it was beautiful to think that we were being called. Unlike in the US where people seem to get to Christmas mass 30 to 40 minutes ahead of time in order to get seats for you family. We were at the church 10 minutes ahead of time. And as we walked towards the church, people were filing in with us. The bells had called all these people, from all over the mountain village, to worship. And here they came, just in time for mass to start.

At then end of the service we returned home and despite the pull of Coco’s swankiness, where Will would be working and could potential dole out a few choice beverages, we all stayed in and enjoyed each other’s company instead. We did Christmas, as we say in our family- which means, of course, that we opened presents. As the trip itself was really the present there were only a few things, mostly stuff EJ and Regan and I had gotten for each other plus the stocking presents- socks, etc. It was nice, light, and fun. Then we stayed up until 2 am telling stories and laughing. When I went to bed that night/ Christmas morning, I couldn’t help but feel blessed. What more could I ask for? I had received the best Christmas present of all time- and no, I’m not referring to the socks. I was with my family. After 3 months away, after going through a rough period of homesickness (which I’m almost positive will have its resurgence in the days or weeks following their departure), here they were. All of my family, my favorite people, whose company I was free to enjoy for the holidays. I had to have fallen asleep with a smile on my face.

We slept in on Christmas morning as no one thought it decent to set an alarm. Regan and I woke up to see snow falling outside our window. EJ’s wish for fresh snow had come through. Regy went back to sleep and I got up, brought my blanket and pillows into the living room, and knit while watching the clouds roll in and out of the valley and the snow fall off and on. It was beautiful. Eventually Regan, Mom and Dad all got up and joined me. Then just as we were discussing breakfast plans EJ came shooting out of his room and then just stood there, hands on hips, looking around at everyone wide eyed- as someone would who had just bolted out of bed. Regan merely smiled and said, “It’s snowing.” To which EJ replied, “I know!!” then turned to Dad and said, “Where’s your gear let’s get going!!” We all laughed then as with a quick exchange EJ and Dad were going to be heading off shortly, but only after “maybe a little breakfast?” (a question directed at Mom, who already had the eggs out of the fridge and was ready to get started.)

The boys headed off to enjoy the fresh snow and the ladies stayed at the chalet for the morning, relaxing and enjoying the hot chocolate I had bought in Germany in October when I was there and had saved for this trip. We eventually got dressed and did a little window shopping/ walking around town. It had cleared up and was yet another glorious day. We returned to the Chalet to cook the Christmas dinner.

Seeing as how I missed the wonderful American tradition of Thanksgiving, and most importantly, my mom’s stuffing, we had decided to do turkey, stuffing and mashed potatoes for dinner. We bought green beans as well, but forgot to cook them. Oh well, it’s always something… if it’s not the rolls, I suppose it should be the green beans. The magnificent sausage stuff was everything I wanted it to be and I was thrilled with our meal! We had even stopped at a Patisserie (pastry shop) and picked up little individual tarts- a couple Pecan and a couple Raspberry- for desert. Mmmmm. What a great Christmas!!

We hit the hay slightly earlier this night, having exerted so much energy on the slopes and having been up so late a couple of nights now. So by 11:30 or so just about everyone was in bed. EJ and Dad did take the time to enjoy a nice cigar out on the balcony before calling it a night.

That brings us to Friday. The plan of attack was as complicated as ever. We were going buy Mom a one day pass and we would all head up to the top of Mont Fort, the highest peak in these parts, at 3330 meters- about 10,925 feet. We took 4 different lifts to get us all the way up there and between the bitter wind and the generally cold temperatures it was chilling to the bone. But breath-taking and amazing. I took enough pictures that I was forced to warm my hands on some vin chaud (hot spiced wine) before heading back down the mountain. EJ decided to be brave and snowboarded down. The rest of us were sane and took the lifts.

Dad and I got off at one point and skied that easy section down again. Mom and Regan only beat us to the bottom by about 10 or 15 minutes and then the 4 of us grabbed some terrible sandwiches from a quick place at the bottom of the lift before headed over to the toboggan run.

Now, EJ, Regan, Dad and I had all seen the toboggan run on Wednesday while out skiing. It looked… a little scary. And we all laughed in agreeance that Mom would freak upon viewing it. But it was going to be fun and she seemed excited about it, so despite our half-joking warnings that it looked pretty sweet but a little intense, the 4 of us (EJ was still snowboarding around the other part of the mountain) headed up to the start of the run. We rented toboggans and I know I was unpleasantly surprised to realize that the ones you rent are the old-fashioned looking wooden sleds that use your feet for steering and breaks… great. We got ourselves set up on the edge of the first section and, scared as I’m sure we all were… well, at least I was, we headed down.

Fail. Steering is NOT easy. And when you put your feet down the snow comes up and hits you in the face!! Sunglasses and a hat were not enough… we should have all had ski masks and ski goggles. Mom’s glasses kept fogging up and there was truly no real way to control your speed. It was rather terrifying to be honest. You come barreling down this track with either the snow bank on one side or the much steeper slope of the mountain on the other. It was only a matter of time before Mom and Dad continued down the run on foot and Regan and I made plenty of stops to catch our breath and de-ice our faces. At the end of it all Regan decided that tobogganing was awesome and that she’d rather do that again than ski any day. I agreed that it was a fun time, but I preferred the control of being on my feet instead of my ass as I went down the slopes myself. Mom was just happy to be safely headed home.

We dined in the chalet on pizza and left-overs, which was delicious and easy after a long day. EJ recounted his adventures on “that mont fort thing”, which was apparently much more difficult than he anticipated. But despite spending most of his day on the Black slopes he made it down in one piece, though not without the exertion of a lot of effort and energy. He crashed early and the tobogganing 4 were left to play a game of cards. And as the rest of the night passed leisurely, each person reading or, in my case, journaling, for personal enjoyment, we all, one by one, headed off to bed after another long but exciting day.

27 December 2008

We leave Verbier tomorrow morning. I’m feeling a little sad at the idea that my parents and my brother will be returning to the States in 3 days. And really it’s only one day… tomorrow we travel, Monday we get to hang out, and then Tuesday they leave. One real day. L But it’s been so wonderful!!

Today was a good end to the week though. We had a nice leisurely day. EJ snowboarded a little more but the rest of us stayed in, did a little shopping, and relaxed. Everyone got massages in the afternoon, which was wonderful. And then we went out for one more dinner. We went to a traditional Swiss place. We had looked at a few menus for dinner earlier in the day and Dad got all excited about Roqulette, a dish he had eaten many years earlier and remembered as being delicious. I remember eating it 3 years ago in Normandy- its potatoes baked in a special oven with melted cheese over the top. They can, in some circumstances, be topped with ham or other meats. We found a restaurant that had roqulette and made reservations for the evening. When we got there we quickly realized that I was the only person that was going to be able to communicate with any success with the staff as no one spoke English. We ordered appetizers of escargots (Dad) and lobster bisque (the rest of us) and got some good wine. EJ, Regan and I ordered fondue bourguignon, which is just like the oil fondue we do at home for New Years, only with a few less sauces than we tend to whip up, but delicious nonetheless. Mom followed Dad’s lead in ordering roqulette and they were surprised to be given a wooden bucket full of potatoes and a plate of cheese. We laughed our way through dinner as we realized that they were offered unlimited servings of cheese- one small glop at a time. Every few minutes a waitress would come back to ask if they needed more cheese, would then take their plate away and come back with a fresh glop. They had unlimited amounts of small glops of cheese with a bucket of potatoes. Not exactly what Dad had remembered, but an experience to say the least. Mom felt thrilled as, for the second time, she followed someone’s lead in ordering and ended up with a less than desired result. First EJ’s cured beef and then Dad’s roqulette. Nice.


We went back to the Chalet to pack and prepare for our day of travel.